Try talking to him calmly when both of you are not angry, and tell him clearly that hurtful words are not okay.
You both have different needs during fights, and that’s causing this pattern.
Try not to blame yourself , you deserve understanding too. If he’s open, couples therapy can help you both communicate better.
Till then, take small breaks for yourself and don’t keep all the pain inside , talk to someone you trust or a psychiatrist/therapist
Answered2025-11-12 07:46:15
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