Hello Friend, Good that you are seeking a help here. Relationships management is a tricky job and especially in such scenario of in law side of problem, definitely needs some guidance and coaching. Your hubby needs to understand your expectations and love. There may be some mental block or past history behind such act.
No worries, there are ways to address such issues. You may need a marriage counseling support to discuss in detail and explore a suitable solution that fits your needs.
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