Fear of insertion

2023-05-06 05:05:11
Hello, I have a fear of insertion while having sex and it's very dominant. I'm not allowing my partner to perform the action. My thigh muscles becomes very tight and makes sex uncomfortable. How to overcome this fear and have been trying for baby for 2.5 years. I also have pcod and I'm slowly reversing it as my periods is regular for past 6 months. Can anyone help or guide on this issue.
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U need to connect with a counsellor This is called dyspareunia U can try a local anaesthetic gel before u try insertion

Answered2023-05-06 08:22:42

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This condition is called vaginismus. U need relaxation exercises, foreplay, gentle touching by the partner,proper lubrication etc for the intercourse to be less hurtful

Answered2023-05-06 07:28:33

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No advice can be given by long distance discussions.  It is better that you and your husband should consult with a Gynecologist in his clinic.  He can give a short lesson on female anatomy and try to convince you that you are normal like everyone else.  Ultimately it is you who has to accept that you are normal.  You can clarify your doubts as and when you face them. No role for tele-consultation.

Answered2023-05-06 05:25:34

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This is vaginismus. U have to do relaxation exercises before intercourse. Talk with partner and get counselling by consulting doctor. Use time to get proper arrousal and use lubricant jelly before insertion. Hope u understand.
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consultation required for detailed counselling and prescription

Answered2023-05-06 05:24:55

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Connect please

Answered2023-05-06 05:22:56

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You need to visit  a Sexologist for counseling  and advice.You know  that you are not  relaxing, you have to  overcome  that.

Answered2023-05-06 06:25:15

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