I think u accept things wrongly. U have to see the every aspect in a proper way.U cant properly get what others are about or people cant get u due to some reason.Some time we cant express proper ourself,our emotions ,our feeling s and people dont understand that and they react on the basis of that wrong reaction.
U have to improve ur self by changing ur behaviour, ur view etc.
U must see the difference in the behaviour of others when u change ur behaviour.
Next Steps
Consult psychologist online or offline if u need external help to modify urself .
best wishes..
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