I feel l am depressed. To cope with it?

I am struggling to be happy. Have trouble in sleep and feel sad on waking up. I don't mind the work (house or job) but the constant bickering of people is getting into my head. I have lost interest in every hobby and often feel lonely. When I discuss about these with my family they do one of these things. 1. You pretend to have big problem when it is so common and everyone else faces these. 2. You are a negative person and this will never end. 3. "Okay we will support you" but they never follow back and get angry if I ask to help me with anything. I know what I am going through is very common for women juggling personal and professional life. But just because its common doesn't make it normal. Now I try not to open up to anyone because they always come with well prepped answers when I am emotionally vulnerable. What can I do to cope with it? I don't want to open up to my friends or family. Is there anything which makes me ignore other's responses & not to have expectation.