You might be suffering from condition known as adhesive otitis media which is chronic condition secondary to chronic eustachian tube dysfunction. Usually it is not painful. My advise is to take second opinion before deciding on surgery.
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Consult experienced ENT specialist for second opinion as ear drum degeneration usually causes hearing loss and tinnitus but not pain
Answered2017-08-10 04:59:22
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