Thanks for your reply. I understood the symptoms. My wife is sometimes unrealistic and have mood swings .she always fights with everyone with over imagination . Her concern is no one should tell anything faulty about her and if so she will be keep thinking about it. Even at office she created lots of misunderstanding with everyone One day she complains about that person next day she praise him. Her mom is hysteria patient . Her brother is also not behaving well and had a shock treatment in past. My sincere aim is to make her live like everyone else . I feel it's my responsibilities to cure her if there is any. But she is afraid of physciatrist. The moment she hears that name she starts to react abnormal and bounce to oral fight . How can I do counselling without her knowing we art doing it ?