Hello Friend, thanks for reaching out here for help. You precisely nailed  the problem in your  suitations which is becoming a common among working couples and appreciate you for acknowledging the problem and showing  interest to try and hold this relationship. . In such relationships issues, family members can't help sometimes as there will a biased opinion. Good that you want to consult a marriage counselor to get a  neutral view. In this counseling process, you might get a different view about this problem and possible solutions. Let's hope. You can reach me for f2f or online. Preferably to consult together with your wife or , if not at least you can consult first.

I understand the relationship problem and I recommend you to undergo couple counseling in order to get things solved. Please let me know if you require my help and I am put up at Coimbatore.

Please go for marital therapy for better clarifications of ur problems. Both of you need to understand and validate eachother's point of view. Seek some sessions from a clinical psychologist only.