Hi
What I understand from your question is that you feel sad so much so that you cry every day and you don’t feel happy, also you feel that your husband do not understand your feelings.
You have to understand that It could be either way that your relationship could worsen the depression or depression could cause more problems in the relationship than others wise
In this situation it is very important that you communicate with your husband and understand that has he been like this always?Why is he like that? Is it because of work or other issues in his life? Is he emotionally detached only with you or other people ? Does he feel that there is some fault in you?
I would suggest that you should talk to a Psychiatrist, it would help you to improve your Depression and together you could work to Improve your relationship.
Next Steps
Consultant A Psychiatrist