Hello Friend, Good that you are seeking a help. Such behavior are bound to happen in any marriage relationship. But the good part in your cases is, you realizing this mistake and showing the willingness to correct it. In fact this attitude will quickly solve your problem.
You may be trying to relieve your work related stress and tension on your wife. So better take a professional counselling help in learning the techniques for handling your stress level and also building a strong bonding and intimacy in relationships with your wife. Don't hesitate to consult a Psychologist to discuss your problem in detail.
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