Stressful and abusive. Life and career!

He is always in stress and is quite abusive. Since our marriage last year he has been blaming me for everything that happens though it has no relation to me. I feel as if he considers me a soft target for spilling out his anger. Whenever in stress he abuses me questioning my dignity. I do not understand the reason because one day he likes smthng but the other day he loaths the same. I tried to talk him out about this but in vain. I have always been telling him to stay calm and positive about things and people. I do not understand how smone can hate everyone without a reason. He is only male child in family so he is over pampered by his parents who would not let him do anything but just sit and enjoy his luxuries. He has been humiliating me and his parents never object to this. I do not know his actual problem but i seriously want to help him.  We are about to get divorced because he has weird opinion about girls so he don't wants to be in marriage. he is spoiling his life and career