Unhealthy obsession to finding "the one"

2018-06-24 03:37:02
I've been actively dating for over a year but none of them worked out. I'm so obsessed about finding my future life partner right now and that everything in life is now irrelevant to me. I'm not enjoying life as much, I don't feel like waking up in the morning & I think I come across as a little desperate. To top it all, my parents are pressuring me that time is running out and my top priority should be finding my life partner. How do I get rid of this obsession & mild form of depression?
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Hi, this obsession and mild form of depression that you mentioned is due to over prioritizing something which is not in your hands. the more you run towards it the farther it will get. consult with me or any psychologist for therapy and counseling. talk in detail. you need to get rid of this obsession. all the best

Answered2018-06-24 13:53:19

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Finding a partner is not a race. Haste is waste!  Relax when the time is right and you are ready to welcome her she will be there. Its good to rule out the possibility of clinical depression. Also most of the time unknowingly we operate out of past experiences. Need to check for that as well! Let me know if I could be of any help. Take care!!
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Take professional help.
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Take good care of yourself physically and emotionally.  Don't be harsh on yourself.

Answered2018-06-24 05:48:07

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You need to consult a Clinical Psychologist to rule out Depression and for evaluation of your thoughts. You cannot find an ideal couple who meets up your expectations. One needs to learn to accommodate his needs and expectations.

Answered2018-06-24 05:42:56

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First assess urself for atypical depression n obsession by me or any other competent psychiatrist

Answered2018-06-24 04:08:38

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Hi, There can be issue with goal setting in your life. Kindly Check why you are getting frequent relationship break or why you cannot hold the relationship for longer.
Next Steps
Try to focus more on your profession or business.
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Right thing will happen at the tight time. Kindly be patience ... You can also try relaxation technique.

Answered2018-06-24 03:47:49

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