Hi I understand you dillema.. On one side you love him enough to let him go on other side these constant doubts don't let you trust and love him whole-heartedly. In the end you have to make the decision you know him best you know how sorry he is for what he did and then decide once you decide don't let any other thought bother you. I believe you should discuss your concerns in detail with a mental health professional to gain an insight about nature of problem and ways to overcome it through psychotheraputic techniques Consult with me or any psychologist for therapy and counseling Connect with me through practo Follow my Facebook page "juhi parashar -psychotherapist " for mental health issues All the best Seek help for early recovery

From what you have said here it appears you have difficulty trusting your bf after finding out about his affair. Which is okay. Since you have decided to stay with him, you can try some anger management techniques. Both of you can learn some trust building exercises.

This bitter irritation will definitely reduce the sweetness and closeness of your relationship. First forgive him by your heart for his misdeed. Then feel and express only positive feelings to him. All negative or conflicting feelings or expression postpone, ignore or keep silent. Alike negative expression distance him, positive expression will bring you both more close than earlier. This is the gradual developmental phase and learning of live. Only love each other...May God bless you both

Hi Mam Thanks for seeking help here. You are going through adjustment disorder. Don't worry with time things will fall into his place... Your behaviour is appropriate or not that only you and your bf can decide. Cheating is something which has a wide meaning in Indian context.....from sexual relationship to just spending and talking..... If it's not that much intense then I suggest, don't push him hard....don't spoil it ....Care him as before... Take deep breath and practice Deep breathing exercises everytime you feel upset and want to shout... Start Yoga. And exercise.

Hi, i understand your concern and you are the best person to judge him as you know him personally for many years and if you have decided to be with him or give him a chance again then just stick to that and stop thinking about this thing completely. Discuss with him and tell him also what going in your mind which causes frequent fights. Tell him that you are gonna be with him and don't want trust factor to come back. Once evrythng is decided just be like before and don't let past come in the way. All the best