You appear to be going through postpartum emotional distress, possibly involving elements of postpartum depression, anxiety, and physical exhaustion
After childbirth, it’s very common for women to experience:
• Hormonal changes
• Sleep deprivation
• Physical pain from delivery
• Overwhelm from caregiving demands
• Emotional vulnerability
This can lead to “baby blues” (which resolve within 2 weeks), or in some cases, postpartum depression/anxiety which requires deeper support.
1. Normalize and Validate your Experience
“It’s completely okay to feel tired and emotional after childbirth. Your body and mind have gone through something intense — what you’re feeling is valid.”
2. Gently Assess the Depth of Distress
Ask questions (if in session or follow-up):
• “How long have you been feeling this way?”
• “Are you able to sleep when the baby sleeps?”
• “Do you feel disconnected from your baby or overwhelmed?”
• “Do you ever feel hopeless or like you’re not yourself?”
This helps screen for postpartum depression.
3. Encourage Rest and Basic Self-Care
“Even short rest periods, nourishing food, and gentle movement like stretching can help your body recover. Ask for help — you don’t have to do everything alone.”
If possible, suggest a daily 15-minute break just for you (walk, bath, nap, journaling).
4. Highlight the Need for Support
“Let your partner, family, or a trusted friend know how you’re feeling. Sharing helps relieve emotional burden and creates space for support.”
Next Steps
You are doing your best, and this phase will pass. You don’t have to carry all this alone — healing takes time, and it’s okay to ask for help. You matter too.