I am in an 8 month relationship and we are about to get married in a few months. We have been having constant fights over petty matters, which didn't exist in the beginning. He insists on me finding a job and working even after we have kids. I am not an extremely career oriented person and have not decided everything in my life with the most precise details, while he insists that I do. He has doubts about our relationship due to this and feels I will be a financial burden on him after marriage. After our last fight we haven't spoken in over a week I like working and I am comfortable in my current place of work. After marriage, changing cities, I am doubtful of finding a job in an IT MNC. I am open to take tuitions or some other small job to sustain my financial expenses. But he doesnt want me to. This precision also extends to his eating habits. He doesnt want any changes in his lifestyle after marriage. I don't know what to do.