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Hi, I am sorry you feel that way. I am sure it’s tough for you. I think there are feelings of doubt about your man’s sexual orientation. We have to create a safe space for you to be able to discuss this and release the emotions you are feeling. It will give you space to discuss this and let out what you are feeling g and it will also help you get opinion of a therapist who understand this holistically. I am sure it’s overwhelmingly disturbing for you to be dealing with this doubt constantly hitting your head. During the sessions we can also discuss the behavioural evidence you’ve collected about him based on your intimate or casual interactions with him. However, to be honest there is no easy way you can find this out till the man discovers his sexuality on his own and owns whatever comes up. However, there are some symptoms which you could watch out for though they aren’t a sure shot sign of him being gay. Initiating an intimate connection with him and if you feel that there is erectile dysfunction and he is not feeling aroused even by being in an intimate setting with you that’s the point you have more evidence of not going with it. A man having erectile dysfunction doesn’t necessarily mean he is gay but sometimes it’s just a dysfunction and has nothing to do with his sexual orientation. However, it will give you a clear path forward. If you are in love with him you could initiate intimate time with him using pills to cure erectile dysfunction while you are at it or if you don’t love him it’s best to not go ahead with this relationship of it doesn’t feel fine to you. I just want you to remember that you have a choice here and you can say no to this relationship for whatever reason you want and it could be anything as simple as you don’t like him. You’re brave.

Hi.. I suggest you to have open conversation with your husband about it. if he is also confused then he can consult  a Psychologist to understand what the issue.

Hello there Thanks for writing in your query. There is no test to prove sexual preference of a individual. But, the following points may help. 1. If you are married, what kind marriage it is love or arrange 2. If you are not married, as you mentioned your life can still be saved, observe behavior while interact with females and during intimate moments with you And best thing, ask directly with non judgemental look. A psychologist might help you teach how to talk about it.

Hi,I think you should have a talk with your husband.He knows himself better than anybody else.Talk to him when you are calm and stress free.

Hello. I can understand that this is a difficult situation for you to handle alone. I can imagine it must be hard for both you and your spouse. To answer your question, there are no such medical tests that would analyze an individuals sexual orientation. Because a person sexual orientation is not a medical condition. In therapy, we would have a detailed conversation with the person and there are some psychological tests to understand more of a persons sexual orientation. It would be beneficial if your spouse could meet a therapist who practices queer affirmative therapy or just a psychologist for now to understand the same. Take care.

Hai, for this you need to talk with your husband. You ve to communicate openly. Kindly book a session through practo. More happy to help you.

Hi... I am sorry to disappoint you but there are no medical/physiological tests to check a person's sexual orientation. It is more like a preference and less like a confined category. Like there cannot be any tests to know what Ice-cream you like or what toothpaste you prefer. Now, coming back to your case. Please speak with your husband about why he is not giving enough attention to you romantically/sexually. Straight way opening up a conversation challenging someone's sexuality is not a good idea. Also, please note that not having a sexual desire towards someone (be it a spouse) doesn't make someone Gay.

First give him the confidence, comfort, and show non judgemental attitude. It helps him to overcome his fears and express his orientation with courage.

Hi for this you need to talk to husband..he can tell you his sexual orientation.