I have been observing that I am low on confidence since I parted ways with a narcissistic guy. Its been a few years to it. I have moved on and happier than ever so I am not carrying any past emotions. However, I have noticed this change in me since then of being low in confidence in action and speech. I have been keeping myself busy, working on career but my performance in every field is is not bold. Also to add, I am not doing this to "distract" myself. I am genuinely occupied in life. I thought I am a perfectionnist but the fact is, that I am just low on confidence to realise my worth. My close ones think that I have a careless/chill attitude but it all comes down to me not realising my 100% potential in anything I do. I have a great company of people around me. However, I deeply miss my bold and firm personality. I would need tips on how to work on myself. Kindly suggest how can I get better at it. I believe in my strength but something inside me is an obstacle i dont know of