Hi... Please seek counselling for your concerns. You are supposedly going through a lot of emotional struggles due to various possible reasons. It's very normal for young adults these days to experience such phases. Weekly guidance and counselling sessions can help you overcome your issues and develop necessary skills and strength to deal with them. This breathing issue while crying is also possibly a panic response which will get better with Counselling. You can also try doing some breathing exercises (deep breathing, alternate nostril breathing, etc.) to establish control.
Next Steps
Consult a Psychologist.
CBT along with Lifestyle Guidance and Interpersonal Counselling is required.
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