Hi... This is a complex web of human relationships and to sustain in it we need to first understand it's basic premise and act accordingly. We can choose to ignore everything and act on our impulses driven by our own respective egos, but it won't change the consequences. Only when we act as per the rules of the system, it is likely to let us survive and may reward us in the long term. You need to sit back for a while and understand what is happening and why it is happening. What kind of social structure you are being part of and what is your position in it. What are the roles and responsibilities associated to that position. You need to figure out how you can perform on those role expectations and where you need to draw a line on what is nonnegotiable for you. In such a web of family relationships, the situation becomes worse when no one is willing to compromise and infact is trying to exercise their own will on others. Remember, no unit, be it a family or any other social group, can sustain or survive if they start ignoring the norm of the group/social structure they are part of and start trying to enforce their own will on it. This a perfect recipe for chaos and such groups/bonds are most likely to disintegrate in the due course of time.
Next Steps
Consult a Psychologist.
Interpersonal Relationship Counselling and Personal Guidance is required.
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