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Hi 1. Develop new skills 2.curious mind 3 show compassion 4 ask good questions 5 say what you think without hesitation 6 knowledge about worldly matters,  read books to keep oneself upgraded 7 sense of humor 8 willingness for social mixing 9 value other's point of view more 10 unconditional regard, humanitarian approach