What you're experiencing is more common than many men realize, and it does not necessarily mean there is something seriously wrong with you or your relationship. Since you mentioned that you've been married for 2 years and now prefer masturbation over sex, while also hesitating when your wife initiates intimacy, there are several possible reasons:
Frequent pornography or masturbation can sometimes make solo sexual stimulation feel easier or more predictable than partnered sex.
Performance anxiety, stress, work pressure, fatigue, or relationship issues can gradually reduce interest in partnered sex.
Depression, anxiety, poor sleep, certain medications, hormonal changes, or other medical conditions may also contribute to reduced sexual desire.
The fact that you still enjoy masturbation suggests that your sexual desire is not completely absent, but rather that your preference or arousal pattern may have shifted.
Next Steps
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Health Tips
Exercise regularly, maintain a healthy weight, sleep 7â8 hours each night, and avoid excessive alcohol or smoking. If you use pornography regularly, cutting back often helps restore interest in real-life intimacy over time. Avoid forcing yourself to have sex out of guiltâfocus instead on reconnecting emotionally with your partner. The reassuring news is that this condition is usually reversible, especially when the underlying cause is identified and addressed early. Many men regain a healthy interest in partnered sex with the right lifestyle changes, counselling, and, when needed, appropriate medical treatment. Thank you