Hi. What are your reasons for getting married! List them. Focus on unconditional acceptance. Be a true lover yourself.

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Hi It looks like you are stressed about marriage. When you think of marriage you have certain fears. Whenever you come across a match or think of marriage you want to approach it with a calm state of mind. You can work on gradually reducing fears and a psychologist will help you with it. I understand stepping into married life is a big step and you can approach it with a calm state of mind. It is important to know what qualities you like in a partner and you can make a note of it. It is also important to know that you will be liked by someone. To get help you can consult a psychologist. A psychologist will help you with 1. Addressing your fears about marriage and overcoming these fears. 2. Feeling confident about yourself.

You need to improve your perception and decision making skills.

Beloved soul, It seems there are three things which stop you moving ahead one is future related fear insecurity feeling, second is negative belief you are carrying for self and others and lastly negative experience of past. For this move ahead with faith and take learning from your experience and also work on negative self concept. You need to work on conscious and subconscious level so consult an expert mental health care expert. You can connect through us Practo online consultation.

Decisionmaking has elements of risk-return analysis involved in it. Anything, including choosing a lifepartner, will have certain risks and returns in terms of happiness. The situation that you have explained seems to be the outcome of inadequate risktaking and decisionmaking skills. Superstetion too seems to dominate your mind. My experience so far as a psychologist has shown that the type of situation that you have explained is present in many who grew up under the grooming of dominating parents (one or both). That prompts me to suggest you to consult a psychologist and undergo a few counselling sessions for changing your outlook. That could probably improve your self-confidence in risktaking and decisionmaking.

Hi... Getting married is a big decision in life and it is good that you are thinking about it. Your fears are genuine and perhaps the superstitions are there because you don't want to make a mistake. You just need a little bit of support to understand the exact causes of your concern and address them from the root.

Hello .. It sounds as if there is some kind of fear inculcated through your own experience or someone else's. I would suggest you to try to find out the reason for such assumptions. In case you are not able to do it yourself or find it yourself you may go for the help of a counselor. Remember not everyone is same hence not all relationships are going to have the same result.

Looks like that you are confused  because of some earlier experience or based on somebody else life experience.. Do Consult a psychological Counselor for a clarity..