Hi It looks like you feel confused and anxious about marrying him. You can explain about what is making you feel confused with a psychologist. You are wondering about whether to break the engagement. When you talk about how you feel about the marriage and what is in your mind you will be able to arrive at a decision.

Seek counseling sessions to correct your perception and decision making skills.

Hi. Have a clear discussion. It is a joint decision. Do you have other plans in life to fulfill...make them ready.

give time to each other and you can delay your wedding date and can talk to each other go from relationship counselling...you will get help in deciding your life.

If you are not willing to marry him you will have to tell him.but before disclosing check on the reasons if it's just your certain thought process try to understand what exactly are you looking for.if he is a nice person you both can give time and grow but if you are fixed that you do not want him (in particular) as your life partner tell him now.

If you deeply & strongly feel you do not wish to be with this person,I definitely advice you to call it off. Marriage is a lifetime commitment which should not be made if you do not feel it.

Hello Before taking any decision just think about that deeply particularly in your marriage. Because marriage is a long time commitment. So try to speak with your family about the decision. If you are not able to discuss with your family then you can consult with a Psychologist and get a professional support.

Dear One, Think what went wrong. What are reason for call off.? For breaking the relationship, it’s not your decision it’s Family decision too, many people are involved. Think a lot or validate your reason for break off with your friends of 5 people or with professional psychologists. Regards, B. Elayaraja, Counseling Psychologist, Kavithalayaa counseling centre, Ambattur, Chennai 53. www. Kavithalayaacounseling.com

Incomplete information But still you should talk to him and find out reality behind your reasons. Analyse it. And thereafter take correct and mature decision.

Are you considering engagement because of the external force like your parents, society etc., Or, yiu wanted to give time to yourself, so that you both can have some more time to understand each other. Before, taking up any decision whether to go for engagement or calling off, do Consult a psychological Counselor /Therapist, to share and discuss in detail your doubts and queries to get better clarity.. Post that you can take a decision accordingly..