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This reflects emotional burnout, unresolved hurt, and perceived neglect after long term responsibility and self-sacrifice within the family.

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It seems to be subdued long standing stress leading to traumatic psychological changes. It can be a combination of depression and other psychological issues. It needs to be addressed asap otherwise it may get complicated and can affect your personal and social life. It can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively and without any side effects. It needs to be addressed in a holistic approach for complete recovery. You need an expert Psychologist who is a good homeopathic physician.

Hi U r so right that when your own people for whom u have worked hard only to satisfy their needs and felt happy toiling to see them happy, take u for granted, it feels unbearable. From what u have mentioned it indicates that your family has completely taken you for granted and hence don’t know how to respect you. Family members have become selfish and totally neglect your wishes and feelings over your own brothers. You are totally validated for wanting to leave them and be by your own self.

Thank you for sharing so openly. What you’re experiencing is valid — when someone carries most of the family’s responsibilities, it’s natural to feel hurt, unappreciated, or jealous when that effort isn’t acknowledged. Your emotional fatigue, long years without rest, and the comparisons at home have understandably overwhelmed you.

Hi,It is okay to feel jealous towards your brother.It seems you are struggling to make your parents happy and in return you are not getting respect and love.

Hi Thanks for reaching out It’s completely understandable that you feel hurt and numb right now. You’ve carried the family for years, taken on debts, worked without a break, and given love equally but the care you receive in return feels unequal. Your brother’s taunts and your mother’s extra affection toward him tap into a deep feeling of being overlooked, not valued. This isn’t jealousy; it’s emotional exhaustion and the pain of not being seen after giving so much. Wanting to step away from the family circle is a healthy signal that you need boundaries and space to protect your wellbeing. In therapy, we would focus on helping you rebuild your sense of worth, separate your identity from this painful family dynamic, and learn how to care for yourself without guilt. Take therapy. You can connect with me on nine two six six seven two six zero six five.

It sounds like you are experiencing "Caregiver Burnout" and deep emotional exhaustion from years of self-sacrifice without reciprocity. When you give everything and receive "second choice" treatment in return, your mind naturally signals for self-preservation. You have occupied the role of the "provider" and "emotional anchor" for seven years, likely neglecting your own needs to maintain family stability. Your sudden feelings of jealousy and numbness are not "bad" traits; they are symptoms of emotional depletion and the realization that your contributions are being taken for granted while your younger brother receives the affection you crave.

Hi, It sounds like you have been a very responsible, caring, and self-sacrificing person for your family, often putting their needs above your own without taking time for yourself. Your feelings of jealousy, emotional pain, and being hurt by the perceived lack of love and attention from your parents, especially compared to your younger brother, are understandable given your sacrifices and the neglect you feel. The taunts from your brother and the lack of appreciation can deeply affect your self-esteem and emotional well-being, leading to feelings of numbness and exhaustion. It’s important to acknowledge your feelings and recognize that your emotional health matters. Considering moving out could be a positive step toward gaining independence, self-care, and emotional relief. Seeking support from a counselor or therapist can help you process these feelings, rebuild your self-worth, and find a healthy way to cope with the situation. Remember, taking care of yourself is essential, and you deserve love, respect, and happiness.

You deserve respect and recognition. Your brother’s words are not truth, they are hurtful projections. Please remember that your worth doesn’t depend on how your family treats you. You have already proven your strength and loyalty through years of hard work.