Madam kids are naughty at that age. But may be you should discuss this issue with your husband. Constant advise and taunts can be very irritating at times, I understand. Do you have a house help or do you do all the chores yourself? Are you a working mom ?
During this phase of life there are a lot of things which may lead to anger and frustration but taking them out on your daughter is NOT the right thing to do.
May be if your husband can help you with the household work you'll have more time for yourself and you'll feel more relaxed. That should help you too.
Please consult a psychiatrist online or in person since you also have a previous suicide attempt.
Also, when did you get
Thyroid levels tested ? Are they within normal limits?