Hi. Though girls usually love and trust a guy, they are not really aware that both are equal. In your personal life even when you love a person a lot you should get Ur self concept down lowered by anyone. Never throw out Ur self confidence for anything in life. Being equal is perfectly being treated good. U should never let physical abuse to happen to u and watch Ur mind suffering. Be awakening and show that you are not a dum person.dobt become too dependable. Respect urself so that also that guy will do. For further stress in Ur mind when u feel low, u can see the psychological counselor which will bring u more happiness.