Hi
This definitely is an uneasy situation for you as marriage is full of smooth and bumpy roads to travel together but whether it can be worked out or not it's solely your decision because you were there in that situation to understand whether he is right or wrong for you.
You decided to step of coming out of that home because many things were not acceptable for you. All that you did was not wrong and all that you think at the moment is also not wrong because you very well know what all you experienced. Sometimes the moments are huge and we decide accordingly.
It's just that when the emotions are overflowing we sometimes can't get to see the good/bad for us ? So give yourself a pause and permission to accept everything that happened, sit in silence, connect with your own self, give both of you some time and in between seek some guidance from a therapist for getting the right direction.
Next Steps
seek help from an expert to get aware of your inner conflicts and sort the thoughts for what gives you peace of mind and happiness that you deserve. After all you need all the happiness
Health Tips
Do meditation by sitting in silence, doing breathing exercises can help , also start with a therapeutic session with a Therapist to work on your conflicting thoughts .
wish you good luck
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