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Heart breaking depression
I've been suffering from depression this 2 months and its affecting my health. Its because my parents are against the boy I love. I want to marry him in future and so he's also..but our parents are against it.. we both have already married in temple..also we are so close but due to distance of cities and states we live very far. Because our parents are so restrictive they're not letting us to talk also..not letting us use mobile also..even when we minimized talking. They're not even thinking to unite us by agreeing for our marriage..they doubt him..even when he's a good guy. My parents beat me so badly that I got bruised and had to go to nari shakti centre then..just bcz I loved him..now he's telling me to wait and give some time.. but we miss each other alot.. and want to do court marriage..but we can't due to pressure of family,parents and everyone. 😞 I don't want to lose him. I wish our parents agree and help us do marriage in future soon. Because we've true love.
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As you mentioned your friend told you to wait and want some time . Now it is up to you wait with depression or without depression. It is your choice.you can learn how to get rid of depression.
There is no guarantee that your parents would agree for your marriage,here you have two choices 1. go with your parents 2.be assertive about you want and what you don't want and express your feelings to them . If they refused your request in that case you can accept that they are not going to change and stand up for yourself and do what you want to do .donot fear of rejection from your parents or any financial issue.
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As you have mentioned that you are a student, I suggest you to focus primarily on your Academics..
So that once you complete your course you can stand on your own foot and take appropiate choices and decision for your futuristic life..
Also seek a professional support to get some clarity..
Consult a psychological Counselor..
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I'm truly sorry to hear that you're going through such a challenging situation. It must be incredibly tough to face opposition from your parents about the person you love. It's important to prioritize your mental and emotional well-being during this difficult time. Seeking support from friends, family members who may be understanding, or a counselor can provide a safe space to express your feelings and explore potential solutions. Remember, your feelings are valid, and reaching out to professionals who can guide you through this process might be beneficial.
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