Your symptoms are concerning but treatable.
You mention:
• Weakness for years
• Weight loss
• Anxiety while going outside
• Avoiding people
• Feeling embarrassed about your body
This suggests two parallel components:
1️⃣ Possible physical cause
Chronic weakness + weight loss can be due to:
•
Thyroid disorder
•
Vitamin B12 deficiency
•
Vitamin D deficiency
• Iron deficiency
• Chronic infection
• Malabsorption
• Poor nutrition
2️⃣ Psychological component (very important)
Avoiding people + body embarrassment + anxiety outside strongly suggests:
• Social anxiety disorder
• Body image disturbance
• Possible depression
Often, long-standing physical weakness worsens anxiety — and anxiety further worsens energy levels. It becomes a cycle.
This is not a small issue, but it is manageable with proper evaluation.
Next Steps
✔ Get baseline investigations:
• CBC
•
Thyroid profile (
TSH, Free T4)
•
Vitamin B12
•
Vitamin D
• Serum
ferritin
•
Fasting blood sugar
✔ Assess:
• Appetite pattern
• Sleep quality
• Any panic symptoms (palpitations, sweating, tremors)
✔ Start basic correction:
• Regular meals with adequate protein
• Fixed sleep schedule
• 20–30 min light exercise daily
If anxiety is significant, you may require:
• Structured counselling
• CBT-based therapy
• In some cases, short-term medication
Do not ignore the psychological part — it is as real as physical illness.
Health Tips
✔ Stop comparing your body with others
✔ Avoid isolating yourself completely — gradual exposure helps
✔ Reduce excessive social media
✔ Focus on strength-building exercises (improves confidence)
✔ Track your weight weekly
You are 23 — this is a very treatable stage. With proper medical and psychological assessment, recovery is highly achievable.
If you’re comfortable, I can help you with a structured evaluation plan and step-by-step recovery roadmap.
Consider booking an online consultation so we can properly assess both your physical and mental health together and break this cycle effectively.