With a view of having an experience before marriage i tried to avail paid sex service, but i couldnt get my penis erect when needed. I was nervous before approaching the female as it was my first time. I did not feel any arousing sensation down there even after seeing her naked so i got more nervous and could not do anything. I have never had a girlfriend. Though i have fell in love (one sided) I used to masturbate quite often since 13 years of age(several times a day). It came down a lot as i aged( almost once a week). I have slight urinal incontinency problem. There is always few drops leaking in my pants after urinating. I almost always experience semen or prostatic fluid leakage during bowel movement. All these problems were there more or less since long ago, but after the incident of failed attempt to have sex i am having problem also for getting my penis erect for masturbation, which i never had before. I am starting to worry a lot about my future please consult any medication.