Hi, I am sorry you are feeling this way. I am sure this is tough. As a child this can be a hugely challenging situation to be in as your primary care givers are feeling unstable in their own emotional space. It’s best to find some therapist who can hold safe space for you and allow you to feel the emotions you are feeling so you feel emotionally healthy. Once that is done you can sit with the therapist to decide the best course of action for you in the long term. Also, it’s best to draw a firm boundary with this man and tell him that you wouldn’t want to engage with him any further as you aren’t feeling safe. If he pushes his boundaries with you, you can raise an alarm with the local police by filing a harassment complaint. Stay safe. You’re brave!

The best way is to address your issue instead of suppressing your emotions,  i recommend to work on fear and worries, and express your situation confidently and approximately to your  mother. If you need how to enhance your emotions stability and resources skills you can consult psychologist.

It seems to be stressful situation induced anxiety issue. It should be well addressed with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively.

you feel like you can’t communicate what you’re thinking or what you want to say, you may notice that you have an increased level of anxiety. Plz connect with psychologist to discuss in detail how things are getting overwhelming for you.it will help you to resolve inner conflicts.

Hi You are feeling upset about your mother having an extra marital affair. You don’t like the person your mother is with and you feel he interferes too much in your life. I understand the situation is making you feel upset and anxious. You want to speak to someone who will listen to you. Do not worry counseling sessions will help you. With a psychologist you can express your thoughts, feeling, and emotions that are bottled up inside. Do take care of yourself.

You are entitled to feel whatever you want But if the emotion is bothering you We need to start taking some steps to change the way we take the situation May be you have some other emotions associated with him so everything he says you take In a negative way.. You can try conveying to your mom gently what you feel.. And if you need sometime adjusting with him. Consult with me or any psychologist for therapy and counseling online All the best

Hi Accept him as your guardian Forgive these three seniors in your life Live your life as per your plans Find happiness in your flow activity

Hello dear I can understand what you are feeling and might be going through. It might be irritating for you when your boundaries are getting crossed by someone who is a stranger to you. Don't worry, consult a professional counsellor or a therapist as soon as possible You can also contact me and I will try to help you in this situation. Let's discuss about your issues in detail so that you can get towards your solutions. Take care. Stay safe and strong. Everything will be alright. You got this!

It’s important to have a open conversation about this with your mom, set boundaries and expectations.

Consult a psychological Counselor for a therapy.. By sharing your feelings and concerns you can get some clarity and understanding about yourself and about your future life.

Hi... It is hard to adjust in such an environment as a child but it will be a completely different story if one includes the perspective of your mother, father, and her partner. What appears to you as an affair might be a relationship, that they are intending to take forward. Marriages do not always end up growing old together. It is a social institution which sometimes ends up before its time. You have all the right (legal, social, emotional) to respond and react in a manner that you deem fit and you may choose to stay with your father if that works well for you. But you need to understand that they have a life of their own beyond being your parents and also have a right to choose the life they want. I know it is hard to understand all this as a young adult and you must be feeling disappointed by their actions, which is fine. You have a right to respond the way you feel about it. But in a cooler state of mind try to forgive them for disappointing you as their child. They are also just common people with needs, insecurities, weaknesses, and wants.