Hi. I went through your query in detail and from what you have mentioned, it seems you have underlying bipolar affective disorder together with alcohol dependence. Bipolar disorder bis a condition in which a person develops either depression where he remains sad or develops mania where he becomes elated, overactive and overtalkative. Considering that such episodes are happening very frequently in your case, it seems yours is a rapid cycling variety. To complicate matters, you are also alcohol dependent. The best way forward will be to seek a psychiatric consultation and accordingly initiate treatment for both the conditions simultaneously. Your husband must also initiate treatment together with you for his alcohol dependence.
Next Steps
Seek a psychiatric consultation.
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Earlier the treatment is started, better is the response.