Hello
Is your concern regarding cleaning only, then too just toothbrushing would not help. A basic check up for you is a must with all the fillings of the cavities done. For the gum going down, I would recommend if you could please share your full mouth x Ray (OPG) with us for a better diagnosis.
Next Steps
Visit the nearby dentist
Health Tips
Any ultra soft tooth brush would be fine which would not impinge on the gums and would not abrade the teeth.