Using a brush is more important than paste. Use minimum amount of paste. Be a role model, you should brush in front of her so that she follows. Consult a dentist immediately for assessment. If she has decay, exposure to sweets and
sugar should be restricted. Don't give sweetened milk especially at night. By the way there are no premolars in a 21 month old child.
Next Steps
Consult a dentist immediately for assessment. If available a pedodontist (specialist in child dentistry).
Health Tips
Does she sleep with her mouth open while sleeping? If so mention that to the dentist or consult ENT doctor to rule out nasal obstruction (blocked nose).