Hello Friend, Good that you are seeking a help here. You need a marriage counseling support to sort out the difference of opinion among you.
I notice a lot of unfulfilled desire or expectations gaps among you. His accuse about some 4yr old story is just a symptoms. There is a some other root cause lying underneath among you. If you are interested in solving a problem, then don't go into fault finding mode. Don't hesitate to ask for help in such suitations.
Feel free to reach out to me online for further evaluation and assistance.
Answered2018-10-01 13:18:20
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