If you want to kip surgery, then try to do whatever you want to like sports etc in your present situation .
If you encounter dislocation or there is apprehension for a disclocating then it is always better to have a stable shoulder than a shoulder which you yourself are not confident about.
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At 25 , you have to make some crucial decisions.
Wether you require surgery or not depends on your shoulder stability.