Hello there, first, take a deep breath—you’re not alone in feeling this way .What you’re going through is something many mothers face around this age, and it can feel incredibly overwhelming.
Around 12–18 months, babies naturally become more independent, their appetite decreases, and they often prefer the comfort of breastfeeding over solids. The more we try to force or distract them with screens, the more they resist, and this creates a tiring loop
The gentle way out of this is to slowly bring structure—offer meals at fixed times, allow her to explore food on her own without pressure, reduce frequent comfort feeds gradually, and accept that even a few bites are enough in the beginning.
If she is full of milk → she will NOT eat solids
Space feeds: 2–3 hours gap before meals
Let her come to table slightly hungry.
Let her self-feed (even if messy)
Give finger foods
Soft roti pieces
Boiled veggies
Fruits
It may be tough for a few days, but babies learn when given space and consistency.
2–3 spoons is OK initially
Don’t expect full bowl
Most importantly, please take care of yourself too—step away when you feel overwhelmed, ask for help, and remind yourself that this phase is temporary. You are a caring, attentive mother, and your baby is safe, loved, and learning every day—even on the hard days
Answered2026-04-10 13:17:08
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