Hello there, You should
Reduce milk intake, no bottlefeeding
Don't force feed, otherwise they develop aversion to food.
Don't react when they spit, stay calm and distract them to eat. Don't use mobile phones, use toys.
You should eat together with your baby. In a same plate. So she can mimic and eat.
Keep space between her feeds, so tht she gets hungry
Next Steps
Increase meal frequency
At 1 year:
3 main meals + 2–3 snacks/day
Don’t rely only on milk
Focus on calorie-dense foods (this is key)
Add healthy fats to everything:
Ghee, butter, coconut oil → 1–2 tsp per meal
Peanut powder / almond powder
Power foods for weight gain
Breakfast ideas:
Banana mashed with peanut butter
Ragi porridge with ghee
Suji halwa with dry fruits powder
Lunch/Dinner:
Khichdi with ghee + mashed potato
Dal + rice + butter
Curd rice with ghee
Egg yolk (very good weight gainer)
Paneer bhurji / soft paneer cubes
Snacks:
Banana shake
Boiled potato with butter
Sweet potato mash
Chikoo / mango pulp
Milk intake (balance matters)
Total milk: 400–500 ml/day
Too much milk = baby eats less solids → poor weight gain
Texture matters
At 1 year:
Avoid only purees
Give semi-solid + soft family foods
Let baby self-feed → improves intake
Avoid these mistakes
Force feeding (reduces appetite)
Excess biscuits/packaged foods
Only liquid diet