Hi, There seems to be an issue with your husband' s understanding of showing affection and intimacy. There is no quick fix to this but both of you seeking counseling may help. If he doesn't get ready to come as may not see it as a problem you can approach a clinical psychologist learning ways in handle the problem at home.
Next Steps
speak to your husband or someone whose advice he would take, especially from his family.
Health Tips
consultant a professional at the earliest if the issue is not resolved.