It has been more than 8 years we are together. Earlier I thought she say those words just to motivate me but later this thing turned into abusing which has now become emotionally and sometimes physically. This has brought me so much pain and also have made me away from the ones I had been close. I'm scared, stressed and even isolated at times. We're going to get married in another year but I have no clue whether what should I do. I love her alot but due to this I stay annoyed and frustrated.