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It seems to be SAD. It is a type of disorder. It needs to be treated in a holistic approach for complete recovery otherwise it may get complicated. It can be treated well with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively. You need an expert psychologist who is a good homeopathic physician.

Hi Thanks for reaching out. How long has it been since your husband has a drinking problem? How many drinks does he have on a daily basis? It is necessary to identify what is causing your husband to have a drinking problem? Consult a psychiatrist and explain about your husband’s drinking problem. Your husband can also consult a psychologist for counselling sessions. I understand you are worried about your husband. Try to be calm and take care of yourself. I suggest consulting a psychiatrist and psychologist

If he co-operates, you can take him to de-addiction. You can convince him with known facts. Your mental health might be hugely affected. Please consult counselling psychologist.

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It’s completely valid to feel distressed about your husband’s drinking habits and the potential impact on your family. Alcohol dependency can strain relationships and health, but with the right support, change is possible. Seeking professional help can be a significant first step toward a healthier life for your husband and family.

Hi, Consult a psychologist

Thank you for sharing your concern. It is evident that your husband's drinking habits are causing significant distress in your life, and your desire for him to change comes from a place of care for him, yourself, and your family. It is important to approach this matter with understanding and a focus on communication. Alcohol dependence is often complex and might require both personal and professional support. Initiating a conversation with your husband during a calm moment about how his drinking is affecting you and the family could be a good starting point. Instead of focusing on blame, try expressing your feelings and concerns using "I" statements (e.g., "I feel worried about our future when you drink frequently").

Kindly talk to him openly regarding your fears and anxieties and if he says that its difficult for him to leave drinking then take him to any deaddiction specialist or a psychologist who can help him in this journey

Hi ma’am Thank you for sharing your concern. In this lifestyle alcohol addiction is common. People don’t get to know when they get addicted to such things. I am sure he would have all the reasons to drink everyday or would definitely make up excuses to drink. The alcohol has reached to a stage where the body demands the mind to have alcohol. If he doesn’t take he would not be able to sleep. And to work next day, he would need that sleep. Take a consultation from a psychiatrist for alcohol help. They would prescribe medicines which would curb the thirst of taking alcohol. There on, he would need psychological help which would make him understand the process of alcohol in the body system and its side effects. This needs to be taken from the emotional front. You would need a lot of patience when dealing with ur husband.

Yes, I can understand what you are going through, drinking can be very stressful for the people around him..and possibly can affect the future. As this looks like an addiction, it won't be easy for him to leave even if he wants to..will recommend you to show it in a rehabilitation centre and encourage him to join AA (alcoholic anonymous groups)

HI, It sounds like a very challenging situation. Your husband's daily drinking is understandably causing you significant worry, not just for his health but for the impact it may have on your family and children. It's frustrating when he makes promises to stop but fails to follow through, which can leave you feeling helpless and anxious. You may want to consider having an open and honest conversation with him about your concerns, expressing how his drinking affects your mental well-being and the family. Seeking professional help, whether through counseling for him or support for yourself, can also be a constructive step in addressing this issue. Remember, you deserve support and care too as you navigate this difficult situation.

I understand it can be overwhelming and stressed for you. Try and Talk to him about his drinking when he is sober, calm, and more likely to listen. Use “I” Statements: Communicate feelings without blame. For example, “I feel worried when you drink heavily because it impacts our family.” Suggest the husband consider therapy, counseling, or a de-addiction program if he is open to change.

I can understand your worry about your husband’s drinking problem. It is natural to feel concerned about the impact it may have on his health and also on your children. It is also important for you to understand that the addiction he is going through is of real concern and also a very complex issue. I would like have a detailed discussion with you on how he has been dealing lately with his mood and are there any major changes in his behaviour especially in interacting with the kids. We need to understand that addiction is a complex issue which needs professional help and it is not easy to resolve this on its own. Have an open conversation about this with your husband to seek professional help with a clinical Psychologist or psychiatrist. A good counselling session and an addiction intervention will definitely help him to work on resolving the issue. With enough encouragement and motivation from his family and professional support I am sure that your husband can overcome on his addiction and work on his way to improving his life.

I really understand how you feel about this unpleasant experience in your life. Ask him to not stop abruptly but gradually this will help in reducing the quantity then slowly stopping can be done by alternating it with something he is fond of which you have to figure out. Keep educating him about the consequences so that instills fear in him and he may stop thinking about the consequences.

Consult a psychiatrist for your husband's issue..

Many people assume that people who drink are doing it intentionally and they have control over it , it's just a habit. First we need to understand that alcohol dependence is a disorder and it also brings about the changes in the brain. It requires professional help both medicine and therapy to help the person out of it. It would require a lot of patience from your side. Meanwhile,I would recommend that your happiness or emotional well being need not be dependent on his disorder See it as a person with illness , we don't fluctuate with the person's situation

It's an addiction.need to solve it at grass root level.