Hi,
What you are describing sounds like poor anger regulation with sudden explosive outbursts, even though you are usually calm. This pattern is seen in many people who suppress emotions for long periods, and when anger finally comes out, it becomes intense and uncontrollable. This is not a character flaw- it is a treatable mental health issue. However, violent behaviour is serious and needs timely professional help, especially as it is affecting your job and relationships.
Next Steps
• Consult a psychiatrist or psychologist at the earliest for proper assessment
• Treatment may include anger-management therapy, CBT, and sometimes medication
• Learn early warning signs of anger build-up and coping strategies before loss of control
• If you feel you may hurt someone or break things, remove yourself from the situation immediately and seek help
• Regular sleep, avoidance of alcohol/substances, and stress reduction are essential
Health Tips
Do not ignore this thinking it will settle on its own. Repeated violent outbursts can lead to legal, occupational, and relationship problems. With proper treatment, people do learn to control anger and function well at work.
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