My wife gets agitated very easily even on very small trivial thing. She has self harm and suicidal tendency if things do not happen according to her way.She interprets the the thing said in some other way and will then start uttering bad words in loud voice. sometimes it becomes nearly impossible to handle her. she wants to be respected and loved but won't reciprocate the same.She is definitely suffering from borderline personality disorder. I don't know whom to consult. Please suggest me some good psychiatrist who can really take care of her and transform her into nice normal loving lady because she is not bad from heart that i know for sure.