Weaning a 14-month-old involves a gradual, child-led approach over several weeks to minimize distress and prevent engorgement. Start by eliminating one nursing session every few days, replacing it with snacks or whole milk in a cup, and substituting comfort nursing with cuddles, books, or activities.
Observe and List: Record the daily nursing sessions to identify which are habit-based (daytime) and which are comfort-based (nap/bedtime).
Use "Don't Offer, Don't Refuse": Stop initiating feeding, but allow it if the toddler insists, to avoid power struggles.
Drop One Feed at a Time: Replace one daytime feeding every 3–7 days with a snack, distraction, or a cup of cow's milk. Start with the session the child is least interested in.
Shorten Sessions: Reduce the duration of nursing sessions (e.g., from 10 minutes to 5, then 3) to slowly decrease milk supply and prevent engorgement.
Replace with Comfort and Food: Offer nutritious, solid snacks or a cup of cow's milk when they request nursing. Increase cuddles, rocking, or songs to fulfill the emotional need for closeness.
Tackle Night Weaning Last: Often the hardest to break, address night feedings by offering water, having a partner step in, or, if co-sleeping, changing the sleeping arrangement.
PS: WEANING IS A STEP BY STEP APPROACH THAT REQUIRES PATIENCE RATHER THAN ABRUPT STOPPAGE
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