It's very unfortunate that due to vaginismus, u both r unable to enjoy sexual pleasure. Vaginismus is female factor cause of unconsumatted marriage, whrer husband also developed secondary ED. It can be managed by regular self dilatation, using vaginal dilator, along with couple counseling. It requires patience, and good mutual support. Mostly problem resolve. No need of any surgery.
Answered2019-09-12 12:10:04
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