Hey! Thanks for coming out with this. I can see that this is causing you significant amount of distress, due to which it needs to be addressed. I think we firstly need to consider the possible reasons behind the incompatibility issues between your wife and you. This can be considered only by getting an in-depth understanding of the concerns that are affecting your marriage. It is also important that we understand the barriers for communication between the both of you, as it is extremely important to communicate your needs to eachother. There is also a chance that your wife has certain concerns too, which need to be communicated. Please talk to her about what you're experiencing, and try and communicate any possible solutions to the same. The both of you can also consider consulting a relationship counselor together.
Next Steps
Please talk to your wife about the concerns you are experiencing, and suggest scheduling an appointment with a relationship counsellor.