Hi... Lot of young adults face issues with public speaking and the primary cause of it is Social Anxiety.
This can very well be dealt with using various therapeutic techniques like Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT), Systematic Desensitisation, etc.
You are an adult now, your personality will not suddenly change but you can learn the skill of public speaking without changing your personality. You can come out of this vicious cycle of self doubt, overthinking, and low self esteem.
You just need to feel comfortable with who you are and what you want to be, and a therapist is the right person to help you in this transformation.
Next Steps
Start taking Counselling Sessions from a Psychologist on Weekly Basis.
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