Thank you for asking. I can understand the distress you are through. It strongly appears to be a problem of Phemosis. You must consult with a general surgeon regarding its management. Depending upon the degree of constriction at the foreskin, the management can be decided. Secondly, do not try to forcefully retract the skin. You must discuss the treatment options and your fears at the surgeon.
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Kindly consult with a general surgeon.
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Don't worry it is completely curable.