It is very important in marriage to have clear and transparent communications about how you feel, what you don’t want your partner to do or do.
At the same time both of you have to give space to each other to grow as an individual and as a couple.
Please talk to your husband that what actions of yours make him feel like that you don’t respect your in-laws.
When he was mentioning some newspaper articles ,please use this opportunity to talk about how you feel about your in-laws . May be he wants to talk about this that is why he mentioned the news.
Please consult a psychiatrist for further evaluation
Next Steps
Please consult a psychiatrist