Hi user,
Are you conversations with your friend a little one sided?
Do they talk about their lives and problems without showing any interest in yours?
Relationships are all about give and take.
It's normal for there to be X morning person is in a crisis and needs more focus and support than the other....... Being a good listener is a part of good friendship.
But in general friendship should be based on mutual support always.
IT CAN BE DRAINING.... IF IT'S ALWAYS ONE SIDED AFFAIR.
HEALTHY FRIENDSHIP IS ALWAYS BALANCED FRIENDSHIP
One sided friendships can be frustrating but try to find out could there be another reason for their behaviour.
friendship is a two way Street
you must understand if it is one sided friendship????
Next Steps
it is challenging to admit to yourself that you are in this sort of dynamic with someone but things that you can look out for are when there is a begging filling that your kindness is not being returned.
how to handle
* talk to them about it.
* ask to make it more two sided
* if all efforts fail, end things.
* IF YOU FIND IT DIFFICULT TO HANDLE ON YOUR OWN SEEK COUNSELING.
Health Tips
talking will help
counseling will help you understand dynamics of relationship......will help you figure out
* how to get your friendship back on track
* how to stay away from one sided friendships
* how to cope with your feelings
* learn ways to handle things , how people treat you.
* how not to attract similar kind of relationship in future.